How Law of Attraction Works

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If I could explain to you how the Law of Attraction works then it will take more than 1 post to explain. I've been introduced to Law of Attraction in 2008 through the documentary movie called "The Secret" (2006) directed by Rhonda Byrne. After watching the movie I turned to their book to read more about it. It has changed my view of the world. It was too good to be true, but it turned out some of my wishes have come true by applying the law of attraction.

I was only 14 years old. I had trouble applying it to my daily life. The more I experienced it and tested different methods the more I have come to understand what I did wrong and right.

The law of attraction is about rules you need to follow in order to attract and fulfill your heart's desire.
We use the law of attraction without knowing it. It has been used for centuries but kept it hidden from the populations of people. How we feel about ourselves reflects how people treat us. Our outer world is a reflection of our inner world and how we think and feel.

Enormous changes will occur when we begin to speak lovingly about ourselves and stop self-judging ourselves for the things we can't undo in the past. Stop turning your head to the past and look forward to the future.

Write a list of the things you love about yourself if you wanna improve your self-esteem. Write a list of the things you love about a person if you wanna improve both of your relationships. Write a list of all the things you're happy and grateful for if you wanna attract more blessings into your life.

If you want something, whether it's money, relationship, or anything else, then tell yourself that you're so happy and grateful that you have these things as if you already have achieved these desires. Play with it and have fun. Don't take it seriously, just have fun with the methods.

Believe in your whole heart that you can achieve and do anything you want as long as you have a sharp belief-system. It might not sound believable at first for you, but you have to keep practice the method to attract what you want. Fake it till you make it.

The important thing that many overlooks are...

You need to be busy with your life after applying the law of attraction with methods once per day. Go out with friends, paint, sing, walk in nature, watch a movie. Have your focus somewhere else so you can forget all about it. Don't sit and wait for your wish to come. That's resistance and the universe can sense it.

When you're at a restaurant and order meal, then you don't sit around waiting for the food to arrive. You talk to your friends, partner, or family, and suddenly the meal has arrived earlier than you expected. It's the same rules. Just relax, everything's gonna be alright.

The thing is, you won't achieve your desires if FEELINGS aren't involved. That's where most people get it wrong. You need to use your feelings to attract what you want. Be so happy and grateful for how life has blessed you with the greatest gift of life which is LIFE.

Have SO MANY feelings into your intention that you cry tears of joy because you're grateful for having that beautiful relationship with that person, having the abundance of money flowing into your life, or that your heart's desire has finally been granted to you.

Another powerful technique is to visualize yourself having all the things you want. Whether it's a new car, money, relationship, house, job, improved health, and so on. Visualize yourself having these things from a first-person perspective. Make it as real as possible, and add all the details and colors. How do you feel about being in that situation? Does it feel good? Great, continue to feel great, and have fun! Laugh and smile.

 Look at yourself in the mirror and do self-talk where you speak beautifully about yourself. Stop wondering why you feel punished by life and start asking why you're blessed by life. Transform the negative into positive. Turn the pessimism into optimism. Stop asking why you're broke all the time and ask why you have money all the time.

Stop asking why your relationship is in turbulence and ask why you're in a loving relationship with that specific person, whether it's a family member, friend or partner. Trust me, this is very hard at first when your surrounding is smacking you with all the signs saying your life sucks.

If you want to see the light at the end of the tunnel, you got to BE THE LIGHT at the end of the tunnel inside you. When your life is dark, become the LIGHT so other lights can come to you.

I'll get more into the depth of the law of attraction in the near future, so stay tuned.


  1. I like this post, especially the part about patience and letting go. I especially like the idea where you distract yourself as a way to let go and receive your desire. Awesome job!

  2. I really loved reading this post, Suzan. You are so right! Patience is key... The Secret is just amazing, isn't it!? :)

  3. Youre awesome Suzan ! So inspiring.

    with love,

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